Trust nobody

This is my first post as a medical officer. This blog will only gets a post whenever I have a significant event in my life that I need to pen out hahaha.

So I hurt a colleague's feelings. I said something which I should not have said to someone (A) about the colleague and that A had passed on what I said to that colleague. I got to know from another person that, that colleague is hurt by my words.

I felt bad. I confronted A and asked what did she said to that colleague. I explained that I did not mean to hurt anyone's feelings and I said sorry. And I asked A to clarify again with that colleague that I was not in context of hurting or criticising anyone.

I also texted the colleague and apologised. She said OK and she doesn't have any hard feelings.

The moral of the story:

1. Never trust anyone. You don't know who can be a backstabber

2. Don't bad talk. Just don't. It's also sinful

3. If you hurt someone just own up your mistake and say sorry and make amends.

4. Things you hear from your friend is unnecessarily true. They usually add some unnecessary spices so that you feel bad/make things worse than they are.

5. If you have done your part ie say sorry and try to make amends, move on from that guilt feeling already. Don't let the guilt ruin your day.

6. Pray to Allah that the person you hurt forgive you.

I also realised from this event how great the impact of an affected relationship to me as a person. I just feel so bad and I could not move on until the colleague responded to my apologies. I am not sure if this is the case with other ppl.

But anyhow I am greatful that things have resolved. Alhamdulillah..