Sunday, December 20, 2009

Enjoy Your Life =D

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim...


Salam everyone. Hopefully whoever reading this is in the pink of health, insyaAllah. i myself is in good condition. currently staying at home, babysitting my brother and taking care of the house =p feeling quite bored at times. which is why i decided to look for a book to read throughout this break. i was shopping with my bestie yesterday and i found this really interesting book titled 'Enjoy Your Life' by Dr Muhammad al-Arifi and it costed RM 60 (ouch lol).




i just started reading it today and my impression of the content was, not bad at all. i recommend it for Muslim teenagers. it is no different from the Chicken Soup for the Soul series, except that there were addition of hadiths and excerpts from the Quran. basically this book aimed in shaping the interpersonal skills and utilising the hidden abilites of young Muslims in line with al-Quran and Sunnah. The author also presented the readers with some examples from the Seerah of Rasulullah, of how Rasulullah and his companions disentangle crisises during their time, and how we could extract lessons from the events so that we could apply them to our current lives. very inspiring. two thumbs up plus a smile =D


Saturday, December 12, 2009

Buat Ukhti Teh Afifah yg disayangi...

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim....

Allah hath purchased of the believers their persons and their goods; for theirs (in return) is the garden (of Paradise): they fight in His cause, and slay and are slain: a promise binding on Him in truth, through the Law, the Gospel, and the Qur'an: and who is more faithful to his covenant than Allah. then rejoice in the bargain which ye have concluded: that is the achievement supreme (9:111)

Be sure we shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods or lives or the fruits (of your toil), but give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere (2:155)

just two days ago one of our akhowats was befell with a tragedy. she was scheduled to get married on 11/12/2009, in the morning and a few hours later, her husband, her mother- and father-in law met with a tragic accident which swept away their lives. Innalillahiwailaihi rajiun...may Allah bless the souls of Akhi Ariff and his parents. Amin.

to my my beloved Ukhti Teh Afifah, i pray that you will weather this hard time with patience (sabr) and may Allah bless you with solace and peace at heart. He is Most Loving and Giving, and He will neveer abandon His servants who are loyal and compliant. Kak Teh, you are a strong person. HE knew you could endure such hardship, which is why He chose you. You gave me strength Kak Teh, by just seeing you in the newspapers and in television. For someone like me who has very brittle iman, i feel as if i obtain the strength to be a better servant to Him. So that when HE test me with such event, i can withstand it.

Ya Allah Ya Rahim, Ya Jabbar Ya Mutakabbir...please forgive us for neglecting you, abandoning you...please help us, assist us in our trying times...please don't punish us before we have the chance to repent...Ya Allah, before you take us away from this dunya, allow us to leave with iman in heart...knowing that there is No Ilah besides You and Muhammad is Your Messenger..Amin..

to whoever reading this, tolong sedekahkan Al-Fatihah kepada Akhi Ariff, kedua ibubapanya dan rakan Akhi yg turut terkorban...

http://www.bharian.com.my/Current_News/BH/Saturday/BeritaUtama/20091212062835/Article

Wallahu A'alam

Monday, November 30, 2009

>_<

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim....


often, when things don't turn out the way you wanted it to be, you start asking yourself why. (stare at the wall and blink twice). you knew that you planned it well, all set, and knew it is going to yield out right. when i was in taylors i used to get over-the-top emotional when it comes to exam results. they were usually acceptable, not too bad. but i always thought they were not compatible to my so-called enormous efforts. sometimes i just couldnt accept the fact that my results were slightly lower than some of my classmates. so i would call my parents and complained. and sometimes cried. i know, i was such a drama queen.

tahajjud, sunat prayers, sunat fasting, were only during the exam seasons. i thought if i performed all these additional prayers and ibadah, Allah would be pleased with me and He would give me the exam results i wanted. well, i am very very grateful that Allah was really patient with me back then. i usually get what i wanted, but i did not accept them wholeheartedly. but Allah knows best, He is the best planner and He knows His servants well. underlying the events happening in our lives are lessons for us to decipher and reason.

if i would have gotten what i wanted, i don't know where do i stand in His eyes...Ya Allah, forgive me Ya Allah..i was such an ungrateful piece of rot...
But verily thy Lord is full of grace to mankind: Yet most of them are ungrateful (27:73)
last night i checked out my exam results, which determined whether i could get in officially into med school and Alhamdulillah, i passed. this means i am returning to auckland next year. the results were not that great, but the MAIN POINT is, i got through. what i got was what He wills. i learnt to accept, because acceptance shows gratitude. and if i really mean it when i said, " i'm doing the exam because of Allah," i would not be whining like how i used to. i guess i should stop looking at the value of the results as what is stated on the result sheet. i should stop comparing my results with others. i should stop asking myself foolish questions. what i should do is start viewing my results as a sign of love from Him. i should start believing in Him to guide my life. i should start improvising myself in terms of my relationship with Allah.

So put thy trust in Allah. for thou art on (the path of) manifest Truth. (27:79)
Wallahu a'alam. =)

(congrats to aliaa,aida, aan and afiq too. you guys rock. heh)

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Ittaqullah

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim...

Update:

i have been abandoning this blog for quite some time. and that doesnt give a good feeling. well, i was busy with some stuff..and i always had had something to write about but the timing is always not right. i am finally back in malaysia last saturday after a long and tiring flight. but i'm glad i'm home Alhamdulillahirabbil alamin =) and oh yeah, selamat hari raya aidil adha to everyone =) taqabballahu minna waminkum =)





On the authority of Abu Dhar Jundub bin Junadah, and Muadh bin Jabal that the messenger of Allah said :

"Fear Allah wherever you are, and follow up a bad deed with a good one and it will wipe it out, and behave well towards people."
Tirmithi narrated the hadith and said it was fine, and in another version, said true and fine


The first phrase of this hadith is clearly significant although it is such a simple message. 'Fear Allah wherever you are' means (according to Mustafa Abdul Rahman) to remember and fear Him regardless of place and time, in any possible situation. Regardless of whether we are among others or by ourselves. two different places may have different environments (bi'ah). adaptation to different environments may be complicated as distinctive environment has its own societal make-up and norms. as a Muslim who understands, one should not be dissolved into the norms of the defined society (if it doesnt conform to the norms of Islam). this is difficult i know..

O ye that believe! Fear Allah, and believe in His Messenger, and He will bestow on you a double portion of His Mercy: He will provide for you a Light by which ye shall walk (straight in your path), and He will forgive you (your past): for Allah is Oft- Forgiving, Most Merciful. (57:28)

the right thing to do is to have pride in what the Prophet (pbuh) taught us. a wise thing to do is to show others the characteristics and the beauty of Islam, through our personality, clothings, speech and attitude. this is a jihad of the mind. while there are others who havent seen yet what Islam has to offer, WE the ones who 'understands' this religion by heart has the obligation to convey to them what is true.

nobody is without sins. in the following phrase, Rasulullah said 'Follow up a bad deed with a good one and it will wipe it out'. It simply means that our good deed could deplete our past sins.

And establish regular prayers at the two ends of the day and at the approaches of the night: For those things, that are good remove those that are evil: Be that the word of remembrance to those who remember (their Lord): (11:114)


Ibnu Mas'ud once said that praying five times a day could deplete the sins committed in between the prayer times.

Rasulullah also said that we should 'behave well towards other people'. So this part of the hadith is a bit disconnected to the rest of the hadith. The first two parts told us of fearing ALlah and countinuously do good deeds to wipe out the bad ones. what is the connection between the former two with the latter'? this hadith is trying to convey the message that taqwa towards Allah also includes doing good towards others. You see, taqwa, literally speaking, is holistic. implementing taqwa towards Allah also means imparting it into our actions. only ALlah knows if there is taqwa in you, nobody else can know it. while others may not know it, they can actually SEE IT through how you go about your life. and one of them is how you behave toward others.

Wallahu a'alam.

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Tough Enough

Exam periods are tough times. Really.

Not because it is the period when the clever is differentiated from the genius.

Or the Acers from the Average.

They are really the time to distinguish between the hopeful and the hopeless.

From Umar ibn Al-Khattab from the Prophet (PBUH) who said:

“If only you relied on Allah a true reliance, He would provide sustenance for you just as He does the birds: They fly out in the morning empty and return in the afternoon with full stomachs.”

(Ahmad, An-Nasaa’I, Ibn Majah, Al-Hakim and At-Tirmidhi who said: “Hassan sahih”)

It is the time when the people of perseverance are rewarded and quitters quit.

Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, “Whoever says (upon leaving his house):

بسم الله توكلت على الله ولا حول ولا قوة إلا بالله

‘Bismillah, tawakkaltu ‘alallah, wa la hawla wa la quwwata illa billah

(I begin in the Name of Allah; I trust in Allah; there is no altering of conditions but by the Power of Allah),’ it will be said to him: ‘You are guided, defended and protected.’ The devil will go far away from him.”

(Abu Dawud, At-Tirmidhi and An-Nasa‘i)

It is the key to tell between the people of iman, patience and tawakkal from the people of doubt, complaint and regret.

So dear brothers and sisters, dont despair and never lose hope..

Tough times never last, but tough people do..


(This is a recent post from http://baitussyifa.wordpress.com/)

Monday, November 2, 2009

Ya Allah...please please...

Let me stay.

Allow me to do this right. I want to do this right.

Ya Allah...

Please listen to my prayers...

Ya Allah...

Please don't forsake me...

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Saturday, October 17, 2009

Hadith 1

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim.....

It is narrated on the authority of Amirul Mu'minin, Abu Hafs 'Umar bin al-Khattab, radiyallahu 'anhu, who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah, sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam, say:

"Actions are (judged) by motives (niyyah), so each man will have what he intended. Thus, he whose migration (hijrah) was to Allah and His Messenger, his migration is to Allah and His Messenger; but he whose migration was for some worldly thing he might gain, or for a wife he might marry, his migration is to that for which he migrated." (Bukhari & Muslim)



Every deed is initiated by intention (niat). Sometimes, what we do may not reflect waht our intentions are. But the Only One who Knows is of course Allah. The AlMighty Judge. For example, two persons going to perform Hajj may look like they are executing one of the Five Pillars of Islam. However, one of them may have other intentions, like he may want to shop for souvenirs more than he wanted to perform ibadah towards Allah. And in contrast, the other person wished to perform Hajj with the intention of elevating his Iman. And according to the hadith above, they both will be granted what they wished for.

During the time of Hijrah, there was this man who wanted to migrate to Madinah because he wished to marry a woman. Whereas the others who were embarking the exodus, they had the intention of liberating Islam from oppression in Makkah. Well, Rasulullah said, the man and the rest of the pack will get what they wished for and they will be repaid by Allah according to their respective intentions.

However, speaking of purity of intentions, the most divine and highly deed emanates from a heart full of aspiration towards strengthening the iman towards Allah Taala. the deed is not necessarily ibadah, it could be anything that we do everyday. eat, sleep, drink, walk...as long as they were being credited towards Allah, because of ALlah. what was being executed from right purposes, will retain a good status. however, if the deed emanated from a bad intention, thus the deed is indeed bad. although it may appear good.

And be ye not like those who forgot Allah. and He made them forget their own souls! Such are the rebellious transgressors! (59:19)

Dan janganlah kamu menjadi seperti orang-orang yang telah melupakan (perintah-perintah) Allah, lalu Allah menjadikan mereka melupakan (amal-amal yang baik untuk menyelamatkan) diri mereka. Mereka itulah orang-orang yang fasik - derhaka.(59:19)

Imam Nawawi classified our deeds into 3 parts.

1. the deed was being performed on the grounds of fearing Allah. This kind of deed is called the Deed of Servants (Ibadah Hamba)

2. the deed was being performed on the grounds of attaining rewards and Jannah from Allah. this kind of deed is called the Deed of Merchants (Ibadah Saudagar)

3. the deed was being performed on the grounds of executing his obligations as a fearful servant of Allah, to justify his gratitude towards Allah and always feel cautious if his deed was not being accepted by Allah because of his carelessness or oblivioussness. This deed is called the Deed of the Liberated (Ibadah yang Merdeka).

The categories of deeds above are all rightful intentions.

Thus when Aishah Radiallahuanha asked Rasulullah, why was he so insistent in performing ibadah every night, without fail until his feet were sore and bruised, although he was guaranteed Jannah in the end. Now, we can understand why Rasulullah answered "I just wanted to prove my gratitude towards ALlah,"

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The conclusion here is, know your intentions. know your priorities. get them right. if you plant the right seed, the flower will come out right, healthy and beautiful. nothing can go wrong because you started right. you will end up at the rightful path, InsyaALlah.

Wallahu a'lam..